From Heartbreak to Healing: Discovering Your Perfect Divorce Support Network
Whether you are the one filing or not, going through a divorce can be difficult. All of those feelings of stress, anxiety, loneliness, and shame. Then, there’s the financial piece.
For most women, one of the biggest concerns is where they’ll end up financially. They know where they want to be when all is said and done, but they don’t know how to get there.
Why having a divorce financial plan is important?
In order to be where you want to be financially when all is said and done, you need to first understand:
the true value of your assets
realize all of your options
be aware of how your decisions will impact your future
Your family law attorney is there to help you with your legal issues as you go through divorce. If you don’t know where to go or who to trust as your attorney, we have a national resource directory that we have vetted so you don’t have to.
But what about someone to help with your financial planning for the divorce?
That’s where someone like a CDFA® comes in.
A Certified Divorce Financial Analyst helps individuals like you work towards an equitable divorce settlement. They review your current situation and find out where you want to be. They help you develop the plan you need to ease the anxiety and emotional stress of protecting your financial future.
Is Group or 1:1 Divorce Support or 1:1 best for you?
Going through a divorce can be a stressful and overwhelming experience, especially when it comes to managing your finances. Whether you're dividing assets, dealing with alimony or child support, or simply trying to establish a new financial plan for yourself, it's important to have the right support and guidance to make the best decisions for your future.
One important decision you may need to make is whether to seek financial support in a group setting or through one-on-one counseling. Both options have their advantages and disadvantages, so it's important to consider your individual needs and preferences before making a decision.
Here are some factors to consider when determining if group or 1:1 financial divorce support is best for you:
1 - Your comfort level with group dynamics.
Some people feel more comfortable sharing their experiences and emotions in a group setting, while others prefer more privacy and one-on-one interaction. If you're someone who enjoys connecting with others and sharing your story, a group setting may be the best choice for you. On the other hand, if you prefer to keep your personal information private, working with a financial counselor one-on-one may be a better fit.
2 - Your financial situation and goals.
The complexity of your financial situation may also play a role in deciding whether group or 1:1 support is best for you. If your finances are relatively straightforward, a group setting may provide enough support to help you make informed decisions. However, if you have more complex financial needs, such as multiple properties or business interests, working with a financial counselor one-on-one may be necessary to ensure that you're taking all the right steps.
3 - Your budget.
Another consideration is your budget. Group support is typically less expensive than individual counseling, so if cost is a concern, a group setting may be more accessible. However, keep in mind that group support may not provide the same level of personalized attention as one-on-one counseling.
4 - Your schedule.
Finally, consider your schedule and availability. Group support often involves scheduled meetings, which may or may not fit with your busy life. If you have a flexible schedule and can commit to regular meetings, group support may be a good option. If you have limited availability, working with a financial counselor one-on-one may provide more flexibility in scheduling.
The decision to seek group or 1:1 financial divorce support is a personal one that depends on your individual needs and preferences. It's important to take the time to evaluate your options and choose the approach that feels most comfortable and effective for you. Regardless of which option you choose, seeking professional financial support during a divorce can help you make informed decisions and move forward with confidence
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What are the different support options?
Most CDFA® professionals offer different levels of support.
From one-on-one support to consulting to group programs, DIY packages, there are different options to fit different budgets.
One-on-one support by a professional can be financially limiting. Unless women have been stashing away money for a while, or are fortunate to have the financial support of a loved-one, it can be tough to swing. You may not be able to pay the price tag for individual service, but you still want the high-quality support.
For this reason, some CDFA® professionals offer support alternatives with varying price points. These alternatives allow them to share their personalized services and support with a wider range of individuals in need of financial guidance.
When is the best time to start looking for a CDFA®?
It is important to begin your search for a CDFA® sooner than later. Once you are beyond certain decision points, it may be more difficult and more costly to back up the bus and re-visit those crucial opportunities.
Getting someone on your team early in the process ensures that they have the time they need to study and understand your current financial picture. Early on, they can help you paint the complete picture of where you want to be, and help develop the plan to get you there. There with you, they will be able to act as a guide wherever and whenever crucial financial decisions need to be made.
The sooner you begin getting the support you need, the sooner you can start making the moves to the financial future you know you deserve.
Get Unmatched Divorce Support with BRIDGE™
Navigating the complexities of divorce, especially when it comes to your finances, is overwhelming on your own. That's exactly why I created BRIDGE™—my transformative six-month program that wraps you in support and guides you from heartbreak to financial healing.
Why BRIDGE™?
Expert Guidance: Benefit from the wisdom of a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (that’s me!).
Community Support: Receive encouragement, advice, and insight along the way in a supportive group of strong women—all on the same journey as you.
Tailored Roadmap: Develop a personalized plan to safeguard your financial future, relieving stress and anxiety.
📅 When to Start?
The answer is NOW! Don't wait, girlfriend. The longer you wait, the less control you’ll have over those looming, critical decisions.
Don't let a lack of support derail your divorce journey. Join BRIDGE™ and take the first step toward the future you deserve!