Frequently Asked Questions

I have decided that I want a divorce. Where should I start?

That is a great question! It can be overwhelming to know where to start. Many times, women think the first thing they need to do is hire an attorney. However, there are several things that you can do before that! Here are a few suggestions.

1) Check out my Divorce Conversations for Women podcast.

2) Set up a separate, private email address to being gathering information.

3) Take the “What’s Your Next Best Move?” quiz here

What can I do if I am not quite ready to file?

On average, women spend about two years contemplating or preparing for a potential divorce. You are not alone. I would encourage you to do a few things.

1) Consider hiring a therapist who can help you work through the emotional aspects of your situation

2) Gather information

*3) Check out our Divorce Planning for Women online course Learn more

*This is a great way to take a small step forward. You can learn information about the divorce process, start to plan for what’s ahead and be ready for what’s next. BONUS: This also includes a private, confidential mini strategy session with one of our highly trained divorce financial professionals.

I am in (enter your state). Can you help me?

Yes! Every day we talk with women like you who are contemplating or going through a divorce. We have clients all over the country, and we love the impact we are having in the lives of women! We offer a free strategy call to learn more about the situation to explore if we both feel it is a good fit. Take the quiz “What’s Your Next Best Move?” to see what you should do next here.

If I have already hired an attorney, can I still hire The Women’s Financial Wellness Center?

Yes, we can be part of your divorce team even if you already have hired an attorney. While we love being involved from the very beginning of the process to help match our clients with the right attorney, we work with clients who see the value in adding a financial expert to their team. For women who find themselves frustrated with their attorney, we provide strategies for assertive communication and boundaries. In addition, we can be a sounding board as to whether or not you want to stay the course with your current legal counsel or explore other options. No pressure! We have just found that women appreciate being able to talk through their options.

Do you work with women who do not want to hire an attorney or a mediator?

We feel that it is important for women to have legal representation (at some level) during the divorce process. Unfortunately, we are not able to work 1:1 with women who choose to not hire an attorney or mediator. However, we do have free resources, podcasts and articles to available to support you on your pro se journey!

What is your philosophy on helping women through the divorce process?

We have your back! We believe that women deserve to:

· Be treated with kindness and respect

· Ask questions without feeling stupid

· Create a budget that factors in their current and future lifestyle

· Know the financial information needed to make empowered decisions

What is the biggest challenge you see for women going through divorce?

The biggest challenge that we see for women is not related to the finances, but rather, the overall mindset. More specifically, here are some of the trends we observe when talked with women. They tend to downplay the situation. They do not ask for what they want or need (without feeling like they need to justify everything). They do not think they deserve a team. They are not willing to challenge the status quo because they want everything to be amicable. Unfortunately, this is keeping them disempowered. Women’s Financial Wellness Center is positioned to help change that!

How do you charge for your services?

We offer a flat-free rate for most of our services with opportunities to upgrade for additional support. We evaluate each situation to determine the best recommendation for your situation.

Are you able to provide support at mediation sessions?

Yes! We have several options for mediation depending upon what is needed. For more information click here.

What results have your clients had overall?

Our clients have seen amazing results. Not only are they happier and more peaceful, but they are able to save on legal fees and get a better outcome. Typically, our clients save up to 50% on legal fees AND get at least a 10X return on investment.

*Case studies available upon request.

I have not been through divorce before. Do I need a financial expert?

Great question! It depends on your situation, but we have seen the overall benefit to our clients. Check out this blog article. What is a CDFA and Why You Can't Afford Not to Have One?

Do you have client references?

Of course! We are happy to share upon request. However, we ask that if we share their contact info, that you follow through and reach out. They look forward to chatting with you! Click here, to see what Kimberly has to say about working with us.

Do you offer payment plans?

Most of our clients pay at the time of engagement. However, we do offer a payment plan option. Take the “What’s Your Next Best Move?” quiz here to see what you should do next.